I’m not one for making big splashy statements. But since oatmeal is probably the least splashy food of all time, maybe you’ll allow me just one. The way we have all decided to cook our oatmeal is not making us happy! We have turned oatmeal into a stodgy blob, and it is no longer living its best life. If you enjoy that gloopy texture, or if you’re already a fan of creamy oatmeal, you can totally sit this one out. I am not here to yuck your yum, or to tell you something you already know.
This post is for everyone who finds oatmeal to be a constant disappointment. So if oatmeal makes you feel as though your own personal malaise has somehow manifested in a non-newtonian fluid, this post is for you. Only 6% of folks in the US consume it (4% in the under 35 age bracket). So even though you’re here voluntarily reading about oatmeal, I have to imagine you might have some reservations.
Oatmeal was never my personal favorite, until I started recreating the creamy oatmeal my grandmother makes. A lot of other Assyrian and Middle Eastern porridges share a similar texture, and the technique is always super easy:
For silky-smooth and creamy oatmeal, use way more liquid than the side of the box tells you to.
Drown your oats with water and milk and simmer until they go from watery to velvety smooth. Then pour (yes, pour! not plonk!) some into a bowl and top with your favorite fruit. With stodgy/gloopy oats, the fruit pieces tend to perch atop the rock-hard surface like ducks on a frozen lake. But you’ll know you did something right when your fruit pieces gloriously nestle into the porridge.
what’s in this post
Before I get to my recipe, I’ve got a little intro to creamy oats:
- I’ll talk a bit about why I think rolled oats tend to be under-appreciated.
- I’ll also explain why I think some folks tend to be nervous about adding extra liquid.
- Finally I’ll share the details of this method.
- Or feel free to skip to the recipe if you’re already excited to try creamy oatmeal for yourself.
first, know your oats!
There are lots of different kinds of oats, but there are three popular ones that you should know about. This post is a love letter to old fashioned rolled oats. But I’ll be referring to the other two as well, so you should know the differences:
- Irish/steel cut oats: These are just whole oat grains that have been cut into chunks. And since they’re whole chunks of oat, they take longer to cook than the rolled variety. Steel cut oats are known for their ability to retain a chewy texture, but you can also use them to make a thinner, creamier oatmeal.
- Old fashioned rolled oats: These are the oats that you’d simmer on the stovetop for about 10 to 15 minutes. (They’re also the kind you’d use in an oatmeal cookie recipe). They look like someone took an oat grain, steamed it, smashed it flat, and dried it out… which is actually quite literally how they are processed. Flattening them shortens their cook time.
- Instant oats: These look a little like old fashioned rolled oats, and they’re processed in the same way. But instant oats are merely flattened to the next degree, and usually a little broken up into smaller crumbs. These oats are designed to be so flat that you can just steep them in hot water instead of simmering. I don’t love these, and don’t really know anyone who does, but they work great for backpacking and busy mornings.
why rolled oats are under-appreciated
While steel cut oats have a pretty strong fan club, old fashioned rolled oats tend to go under-appreciated. I think that’s because folks often ask rolled oats to behave in a way that doesn’t play to their strengths. Here are a few ways I believe rolled oats are misunderstood:
1. You can’t replicate the chewy texture of steel cut oats in rolled oats:
Steel cut oats are a great idea if you’d like to really embrace the chew (though they are very versatile, and also work perfectly well in a silkier, creamier porridge). But old fashioned rolled oats are wonderful on their own terms, and are best made into a velvety, creamy porridge. Unfortunately, most recipes use way too little liquid in an attempt to create a steel-cut-adjacent texture. This results in a stodgy gloop. Best not to try to make your old fashioned oats behave as steel cut oats.
2. Overnight oats don’t deliver on their promises:
Some have tried to solve the mushy oatmeal texture problem by introducing an overnight soak for rolled oats. This supposedly retains their chew and texture. Full disclosure, the texture of overnight oats is just not for me (though again, not yucking your yum). But even if you enjoy overnight oats’ texture, you have to admit, they’re not exactly chewy. Rolled oats just can’t be expected to “retain” their chew, since they were never really chewy to begin with.
3. The ingredient ratios on the old fashioned rolled oat box are questionable:
This is the original sin, which led to the need for such interventions as overnight oats and chewy steel cut. Following the ingredient ratios on the box of rolled oats results in the gloopiest oatmeal texture ever, one that sets up even before it hits the bowl. There’s just not enough liquid.
If you don’t like oatmeal, it might just be because you’ve had it prepared this way. Again, I’m not here to tell you to stop enjoying something you love. But given oatmeal’s staggering unpopularity, as well as the entrenched status of this cooking method, I have to assume this method of preparation is not working for many people.
4. Instant oats give people watery oats anxiety, but “watery” is not the same as “smooth and creamy”:
Whenever I tell someone that I add a lot of liquid to my oats to make them super creamy, people often respond by saying “hmm, but wouldn’t that just make them super watery and mushy?” If you’ve ever had instant rolled oats steeped in boiling water or milk, you’re probably familiar with that watery/soggy texture. I’m pretty sure the soggy disaster of instant oats is the reason folks are afraid of adding more liquid to their old fashioned rolled oats. But this sets up a totally false dichotomy between watery/soggy oats and gloopy/stiff oats. There is a creamy alternative out there, which is nothing like either.
The bottom line: when cooking old fashioned rolled oats, always shoot for creamy and silky, rather than firm and chewy. When cooking steel cut oats, go for either firm and chewy or creamy and silky. And when cooking instant oats… maybe consider cracking open a box of pop tarts instead! (Save me a s’mores or strawberry one please!)
My favorite method of cooking rolled oats: 1 part oats to 4 parts liquid (by volume).
The key to perfect old fashioned rolled oats is to use about twice as much liquid as most recipes say to use. Most recipes (including oatmeal boxes) have you use a ratio of 1 part oats to 2 parts liquid by volume, but I much prefer 1 part oats to 4 parts liquid by volume (that’s about 1 part oats to 9 parts liquid by weight). Or if you don’t feel like doing the math, just follow the recipe at the end of this post.
If you’ve never made oatmeal this way, you’ll probably feel like you’ve made a huge mistake at first. Indeed, it looks like an awkwardly large amount of liquid for such a small amount of oats. It will look incredibly watery at first, like instant oats gone horribly wrong. But after about 15 minutes, its starches will swell and burst, a small amount of the liquid will cook off, and it will magically thicken into a velvety texture. It might still look slightly too thin, but it will set very slightly as it cools at the table.
As my grandmother would probably want me to remind you: Don’t forget that this method has fewer calories than thick gloopy oatmeal (depending on the kind of milk you use). So be generous with the serving size if you’re hungry. It’s very light, so you might want to eat a bigger bowl than usual if you like to start off your day with a big breakfast.
a world-wide love of creamy oatmeal:
This cooking method isn’t limited to just my family. When I lived in Hong Kong, I’d order porridge in cha chaan tengs, and it always shared the same texture. When my sister visited Peru, her host families all cooked their oatmeal the exact same way. In Melbourne (where I live), porridge is on every brunch menu, and it’s always perfectly silky smooth, never gloopy (and often topped with macerated rhubarb, *swoon*).
I also recently asked friends from our intersectional food writers’ facebook group, and we shared a similar experience of smooth and creamy oatmeal, having grown up in Indian, Filipino, Jewish, Puerto Rican, Korean, and Assyrian families (thanks Celeste, Nandita, Jessica, Caroline, Twilight, and everyone!).
how to top it:
The following recipe includes instructions for macerating strawberries, a really easy method for preparing a lightly sweetened fruit topping. You can macerate pretty much any fruit (especially peaches, plums, nectarines, other berries, etc.) by sprinkling them with a little sugar, and letting their juices accumulate in the fridge for at least 30 minutes (more like 24 hours is ideal). Use the syrup that collects sparingly (or generously!) as a little sweetener.
I packed some macerated berries, rolled oats, and dry milk on a camping trip a couple weeks ago, and we had such a lovely breakfast of porridge and coffee. I mostly brought the oatmeal for myself, but for lack of anything else to eat, Simon accepted a bowl of smooth and creamy oatmeal with a weary smile, and ever since, it’s become his new favorite breakfast. It was a fun turn of the tables, since Simon has always loved the outdoors, and I am a city mouse who has suddenly started to love camping after being cooped up indoors all year. It’s a good time to try something new!
creamy oatmeal
- Prep Time: 5
- Cook Time: 15
- Total Time: 20
- Yield: 2 servings
Ingredients
for the oats:
- ¾ cup old fashioned oats (gluten free ones, if necessary) [75g]
- 1½ cups water [355g]
- 1½ cups your milk of choice* [355g]
- ¼ teaspoon salt
- Toppings (e.g., macerated fruit, chopped nuts, spices, etc.)
for the strawberries:
- 8 oz container strawberries [225g]
- 2 tablespoons brown sugar [25g]
- 1 teaspoon cinnamon (optional)
- 1 teaspoon sumac (optional)
- ¼ teaspoon salt
Instructions
- For the oats: Bring the oats, water, milk, and salt to a simmer in a small saucepan* over medium heat, stirring every minute or so. Once it comes to a simmer, reduce the heat to medium or medium-low and continue to simmer for about 15 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the liquid thickens and the oatmeal softens. It will start out watery, and at a certain point it will noticeably thicken (e.g., the bubbles will get bigger), while still remaining very pourable and creamy. Leave it uncovered the whole time, and be careful not to let it bubble over.
- Pour into bowls and let it cool off for a few minutes (it will thicken a little more after a couple minutes). Add your favorite toppings at the table (here, pictured with chopped walnuts and macerated strawberries).
- For the berries: Hull and quarter your strawberries, place in a jar along with brown sugar, cinnamon, sumac, and salt. Shake together until evenly coated, and place in the refrigerator for at least 10 minutes, up to overnight.
- Spoon the berries and rendered syrup over your oats.
Notes
* Feel free to use whole cow’s milk, or any vegan milk. Coconut milk is one of the strongest tasting vegan milks, so only use it if you’d like some coconut flavor to come through (if you’re using coconut milk, use the kind from a carton in this recipe—you can use the kind from a can, but you need to water it down to turn it into something more like the kind in the carton).
** If you’re using a wide pan instead of a small saucepan, you may need to add a bit more water as it cooks (more water will evaporate from a wide pan).
I love all things oatmeal and am so glad I stumbled upon this website and recipe. So excited to try it! I’ve been looking for the best recipe for a nice creamy bowl of oats vs. the dry clump you mentioned. Do you think that this ratio would work for making a creamy bowl of wheat as well? (They serve this amazingly creamy bowl cream of wheat at a local Portuguese restaurant and I’ve been trying to mimic the texture for that as well).
Thanks again for the inspiration!
Ooh that’s a fantastic question, and I can’t say for sure without actually testing it, but my memory is that the ratio on the back of the cream of wheat box tends to be a bit more generous with the liquid than the back of the oatmeal (and thereby it’s usually creamier). I feel like the box usually calls for just a couple Tbsp of farina for a cup or so of liquid. I’d check it out and see, and you can always experiment with more if you’re curious and don’t mind waiting for the little bit of extra liquid to cook off if it ends up being too much.
Perfection. Thank you for this recipe, it works just as well with steel cut Irish oats and Scottish oats as well (much to my delight since these are my favorite). As others said it seems wrong at first but it does come together. Almond milk, salt, cinnamon, and vanilla extract make it perfect for me.
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Ooh I’ve never tried this ratio with steel cut Irish/Scottish oats! I’ll have to pick some up this week—can’t wait!!
Wow! I’m so impressed I had to comment. Made it this morning with a lot of skepticism, and it’s so tasty. I worried that it wouldn’t thicken, but it did. Oats are soft (not mushy) and it’s creamy. Haven’t enjoyed a bowl of oatmeal like this in a while.
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I’m so glad you enjoyed it!! And I was just as skeptical the first time I saw my grandmother make oatmeal. I was like *this absolutely can’t be the way she normally makes it…* haha
I have NEVER – in all my years of cooking, googling recipes, and reading food blogs – left a comment on a recipe. Today, I actually went to track down the keyboard for my iPad to do this. 🤣❤️
I notoriously hate oatmeal made at home. I’ve hated it my entire life. It wasn’t until a NYC hotel stay in my twenties that I tasted oatmeal made this way. I was immediately obsessed and have looked tirelessly for it since. The only place that I’ve ever found it is on the odd trip to a nice hotel here and there. I’ve tried to do it myself at home, but never found any recipe that even remotely recreated the style. Which brings me to today.
My family spent the night at The Gaylord Texan for my son’s birthday last week. I was so excited to spot my favorite oats in the (insanely expensive) breakfast buffet! I’ve been haunted by the ghost of Christmas porridge past every day since. I broke down this morning and dejectedly googled “creamy oatmeal” one more time. And THIS POST is the first thing that popped up. I felt cautious optimism mixed with fear. There was no way this could be it, right???
WRONG! This IS the recipe!!! THIS is the one that I have been searching for since J.Lo was dating Puff Daddy! (That’s way too long to wait for oatmeal, just FYI.) I ate three bowls in a row and I’m probably making it again for dinner. In all seriousness, this just made my heart so happy and I am SO thankful that you put this recipe out in the world! I’m officially a serious fan girl! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!
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Oh my goodness, your message absolutely made my DAY. What is the deal with hotels, hospitals, etc making the best oatmeal? It’s such a thing. I completely know what you’re talking about. And I’m so glad that my recipe delivered.
Also what a throwback. I 100% forgot that they dated. Early 2000s memory unlocked!!
Just WOW. I didn’t even put sugar in it and it was purely amazing and I’m sad that it’s gone. The one down side to this recipe is that now I will want to eat 100 servings of oatmeal in one sitting.
I did have to adapt some things, I used 1 cup milk and 2 cups water because we were low, and I used Old fashioned oats. I just simmered until desired thickness and ate it.
SO GOOD
Whenever someone comments on this oatmeal post in particular, it absolutely makes my day. It’s just so nice hearing from people who are as passionate about oatmeal as I am haha <3
I sometimes reduce the milk too when I don't have any on hand, and agreed, it still turns out great.
I’m making this recipe tomorrow morning. But I will agree with you on the hotels making the best. The other place that I get it from that is so shocking to most, but so amazing, is McDonald’s!!! They make the best and creamiest around believe it or not!
I can’t wait to try this tomorrow morning! Thank you!!!
omg! Okay I’ve gotta try that. McDonald’s is my absolute favorite fast food chain, but somehow I’ve never had the oatmeal. Always pancakes for me!
This is such a wonderful recipe!! It’s the first time I’ve made oatmeal that I literally couldn’t stop eating—it was so perfectly creamy, and I loved the texture of the actual oats (not mushy at all!). I shared some with my family, and we all agreed that it was the best oatmeal we’d ever had. Thank you so much for this recipe—it’s my new go-to breakfast!
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I’m so glad you’re all enjoying it!! 😀
This oatmeal is creamy and rich and really satisfying on a chilly morning!! I love oatmeal but ONLY if it’s creamy, which I could only get at my favorite breakfast place. My H makes oatmeal in the microwave (yuck!) – Or rather, he used to. He’s now a concert to this great oatmeal . It takes a bit longer than 15 minutes for me to get it to the right consistency, but that’s okay. Great things take time.
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Yay I’m so glad you’ve been enjoying it! And your husband too! Mine was also extremely skeptical and convinced it was going to turn out “watery,” until he tried a bite and was instantly converted too haha
I make this recipe all the time. Each time I tell my family, “Why? Why do they put that crappy recipe on the side of the rolled oats container”. This recipe is clearly what oatmeal is supposed to taste like! The macerated strawberries are amazing! I still need to pick up some sumac. But it is fall and I can’t wait to try a apple/cinnamon topping!
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Aw your comment absolutely made my day! And I 100% agree haha, my mom believes it’s a conspiracy to get people to use way more oatmeal than they need to haha
And apple/cinnamon oatmeal is my favorite! I actually have a recipe for this oatmeal + cinnamon apples in my second book, out in 2023 (am I announcing my next book for the first time in a comment on my oatmeal post? Why yes——I guess I am! haha)
Delicious!
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Yay I’m so glad you enjoyed it!!
Okay, I know this has been said 1000 times, but WOW! And THANK YOU! I have never before made porridge I could actually stand, but this … SWOOOOON! Topped it with dried apricots re-hydrated in hot water then immersion blended, and seriously, no sugar needed! SWOOOOOOOON…..
This comment is the absolute best, thank you so much, and I’m so glad to hear you’re enjoying porridge now!! 😄
“No way will the 4:1 water:oats ratio work.” Twenty minutes later, I’m eating gooey, creamy, wonderful oats. You made a believer out of me. Thanks! Yes, this is the method.
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Hahaha omg I love this comment, and I know exactly what you mean re. your skepticism. When I first saw my grandmother make oatmeal, I was like “wait, what?? There’s no way that’s what you normally do!”
Are we putting the oatmeal and liquid in the pot at the same time or bringing the water to a boil first?
Same time, although I suspect it wouldn’t make much of a difference to bring the water to a boil first, as long as you stir the oats as they go in. Really either way!
I made oatmeal yesterday for the first time in ages. My daughter and I both found it to be gloppy and yet watery at the same time. I wondered if oats had somehow changed. Now I understand the problem and I’ll use your method next time. Thank you so much.
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Ah it’s so interesting what a difference the amount of liquid makes. Hope you enjoy it!
Love this recipe! Thank you so much! I make it with sugar free vanilla almond milk, edd some vanilla extract & honey…. Unbelievable I have it every day
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I’m so glad you’re enjoying it! 😀
Thank you, this recipe has reignited my love for porridge! No more chewy stodginess, the liquid ratio you suggested is perfect. Lovely with chopped banana, will try the macerated strawberries next.
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I am so glad you’re enjoying it!
I’ve been meaning to make this since you posted it and I finally got around to it this week, and it’s AMAZING! I have been converted into an oatmeal consumer.
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Oh yay! I’m so glad you got a chance to make it! Here’s to many more bowls of creamy oatmeal!
I love oatmeal and have wanted to try this since you originally posted it. I finally tried it this week and it’s my new favorite way to prepare oatmeal. I added a sliced banana and a lot of cinnamon and it was a hearty, delicious breakfast. I can’t wait to try your savory oatmeal recipes next.
Aw you made my day! I’m so glad you’ve been enjoying it! And feel free to use this oatmeal cooking technique with the savory oatmeal toppings (that technique is a little different from this one, and more like the back of the box stuff). Hope you keep enjoying! Reminds me, I should make some for breakfast tomorrow!
Can these oats be made the night before? How are they when stored? Just curious! Can’t wait to try this version!
Hi there! You can make it the night before and store the oatmeal in the fridge—just note that it will thicken a bit overnight. (If you want to thin it out, you can always add a little more water to it before re-heating, but it’s also really lovely without extra water—depends on what you like!)
This is the PERFECT oatmeal cooking method! I used almond milk and it is soooo creamy and thick without being gloopy or chewy. Thank you – I will be using this recipe several times a week!
I am so, so glad you’re enjoying it!! 😀
Wow that was so so good! I put raw fruit in mine and sweetened with alil bit of coconut sugar and honey and it was divine!!!!! I didn’t even think I liked oatmeal
Welcome to team oatmeal!! haha, I’m so glad you’re enjoying it!
I’m definitely gonna try this recipe! However, you mentioned a macerated rhubarb topping? Do you have a recipe for that? I’d be so curious to try that!
Ah unfortunately I don’t at the moment! I do have a book coming out later this year, which does have a really wonderful strawberry rhubarb compote that would work great here. In the meantime, David Leite’s looks unbelievable: https://leitesculinaria.com/316836/recipes-strawberry-rhubarb-compote.html
This recipe has changed my mind about oatmeal! I have always hated oatmeal after only having been served the microwaved, goopy, gluey stuff. This is something else entirely!! This oatmeal is creamy, light, and sort of fluffy! I used oat milk and served with chocolate chips, banana slices, and walnuts. So good and worthy of a special weekend breakfast!
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Aw that seriously makes me so happy! I’m glad you’re enjoying it, and totally agree, the gloopy stuff gives oatmeal such a bad name.
We plan our meals ahead each week, and for breakfast, I was in the mood for something hot, creamy, and comforting and stumbled across this recipe which I though gave a great spin to our typical bowl of mushy oatmeal, and boy did this deliver! This was exactly what I needed….it was creamy and sweet and just perfect! Thank you for sharing this recipe with us. I have saved it in my recipe repeater and will certainly be making it again!
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oh, and I’ll also mention that I posted pictures and the recipe within a work Slack channel we have dedicated to foodies (this is how much I liked it!), so hopefully others will try it as well!
What’s the trick to get steel cut oatmeal smooth and silky..??
Thanks,
Catherine
I’m actually working on that right now! I haven’t quite nailed the ratios yet, but the key is similarly to use more liquid than you might think.
Aw I am so thrilled you enjoyed it! 😄 And I hope your coworkers enjoy it too!
Absolutely delicious! I’ve been looking for a recipe like this for ages. Thanks!
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I’m so glad you’ve been enjoying it! 😀
You’ve changed the game. Ever since I got pregnant with my son in 2019, I haven’t been able to stomach oatmeal (because of the texture and gloopiness), but THIS, this right here changed me. I’ve had this every morning for the past week. I usually do apples with brown sugar and cinnamon, to kind of give it an apple pie feel. Absolutely delicious.
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Oh my gosh your message absolutely made my day! And it’s so funny—I have heard this exact thing from not 1, not 2, but 3 folks who developed an oatmeal aversion while pregnant! I 100% attribute it to the fact that it’s a recipe inspired by my grandmother’s cooking, and pretty much all her food makes people feel better <3
Hope you continue enjoying it! And yum, apple pie oatmeal sounds so lovely!!
Thank you!! I now have the perfect oats. Creamy, dreamy! Although I prefer mine savory.
I absolutely love savory oats too! Corn, butter, garlic, and green onion is my go-to. Yum!
This is it. The oatmeal recipe I was looking for. I am from Hong Kong myself and growing up I always loved the cha chan teng versions like you mentioned. The home economics class at my school also taught us how to make this at one point but me being a kid I never even considered saving the recipe.
Thank you thank you thank you! Instantly subscribed to cardamomandtea!!
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Aw your message absolutely made my day! I’ve been thinking about HK often these days, and really miss it. Wish I could walk around the corner and order a bowl of porridge at a cha chan teng right now! And I am so glad you are enjoying this one! <3
These oats are amazing! I find myself craving them and making them weekly. So simple and so so delicious.
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Aw Thanks Heifa! I’m so glad you’ve been enjoying it!
Oatmeal game changer!! How did I go my whole life not knowing oatmeal could be so silky and delicious?
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Ah, right?? I should really listen to my nana more often haha
My mother always made such good creamy oatmeal. Now she is 90 and I’m cooking for her. I have tried to follow the recipes on the oatmeal boxes before and I could never get them creamy enough like hers. I tried to add more liquid, but never really knew how much more it actually took. Thank you for sharing this information……that it actually takes double the liquid. We are having creamy oatmeal again.
Thank you so much for your kind words Lisa—your story truly brightened my day!
This method of cooking oatmeal is SO good! Perfect texture. I’m making oatmeal like this from now on!
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Naneelokh Heather! <3
Love this post, Kathryn! Like you, I add a little water so the oats swell up and are better able to absorb the milk. I can’t wait to try your recipe!
Totally agree, water is so important! I usually do half water half milk, but I’ve heard that it also works really well to start with water and then add the milk as it cooks. I feel like as long as folks are using more liquid than the box says, it’ll turn out fine, whether it’s all water or all milk haha
I have made this recipe a few times now and absolutely it! I used oat milk. I have also got my daughter onto it. It’s perfect just topped with banana, maple syrup and cinnamon. So so good
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I am so, so happy you’re enjoying it! And ooh banana maple cinnamon is one of my favorite combinations too. Ok now I know what I’m having for breakfast tomorrow, yum!!